A
Memorial and Tribute ...
May
2, 1911 - June 2, 2006
Our
beloved mother, Irene Connell, departed this life peacefully on June 2,
2006, at the Central Texas Medical Center, in San Marcos, Texas.
In
everything she set out to accomplish in life, this consummate lady did
it with dignity, grace, class and humility, including graduating from
this life to the next. She went Home to her Heavenly Father and was looking
forward to once again being with her family members and her husband, John's
and my father.
This
most selfless, caring and compassionate mother loved regaling her friends
and family with stories of her own childhood in Pincher Creek, Alberta
and Sidney, B.C. Canada. She began writing her memoirs in 1994 from childhood
to adulthood, breathing indescribable life into every word. What a tremendous
gift she left us.... her flair for writing evident throughout.
Irene
was born May 2, 1911, to James and Elizabeth Yates Thornley in Pincher
Creek, Alberta. Her father had emigrated from England in the early 1900's
eventually settling in P.C. It took him eight years to save enough money
and to build a cabin before bringing Elizabeth, the love of his life,
from England to Canada. They were married in July, 1910. Most family members
eventually followed suit. They owned a ranch named the Sylvan Ranch where
he raised Arabians.
At
the tender age of 11, Irene told her parents that "someday I'm going
to marry a cowboy who has horses" Well, she did; 18 years later she
married our father, Ed Connell, horseman and author.
In
1922 her family moved to British Columbia where she completed her schooling,
but her heart was in Alberta. By the time the Great Depression was in
full swing, she had already completed courses in nursing in Victoria.
Her first job was as a private duty nurse.
Irene
became an American citizen in 1935 when living in Newman, California.
It was there that she met her future husband, Ed Connell. They married
in 1941. She relished living on different ranches and was in seventh heaven
when entertaining and preparing exquisite meals for their friends. Over
the years our family lived on many ranches, having moved many times which
in those days was a common thing to do.
Irene
decided to return to nursing where she worked for a small hospital in
Bakersfield, California for 15 years. She was a walking-talking conduit
of information and knowledge when it came to preventive medicine, much
of which was introduced to her in Canada.
She
and Rodale got along famously. When the doctors couldn't get well fast
enough to their liking, they called upon "Doc Irene."
If
there was anything that she preferred doing the most, it was taking care
of newborns. She had a way with them that no one else had. They always
thrived better when she was around and there were a lot of grateful parents.
We have all witnessed babies and children wreathed in smiles when seeing
our mother for the first time. Dogs and horses would follow her, as if
she were an old friend.
Many
people told Irene during her lifetime that she was an Old Soul; she must
have been as she was naturally wise and only gave sage advice when asked.
One
of her favorite stories involved the Titanic. Irene and her parents traveled
back to England in 1912 for one month to visit relatives. Passage to New
York was booked on the Titanic. They had all boarded the ship only to
discover that a suitcase had been left behind at the hotel near the dock.
Irene's father left to retrieve the suitcase. Upon his return, he discovered
his wife and daughter and luggage on the dock. "What's the matter,
Beth, why aren't you on the ship"? Whereupon she replied, "we're
not taking this ship, Jim, I don't have a good feeling about it at all-we'll
take the next one." Grandmother was incredibly intuitive as was demonstrated
repeatedly throughout her life.
In
1970-1975 Irene worked in Brentwood, California as a private nurse for
a wonderful family. She was in her element once again when it came to
entertaining, flower arranging and preparing fancy luncheons for her employer
and friends.
Our
mother spent her remaining years in Texas to be near her family. We never
had the luxury of really knowing our grandparents well due to the distance
... she made certain that she would know her grandchildren; for that we
are all grateful.
Irene
is survived by: her daughter Leslee Schwartz and husband David of Wimberley;
son John Connell of Tomball, Texas; and three grandchildren, Jennifer
of Houston, Paul and his wife Rachel of Austin, and Rebecca Hernandez
and her husband Danny of Texas City.
Memorial
Services were held July 14, 2006 at the Unity Church in Wimberley. Her
ashes will be scattered in California. |